My mom and I outside of a castle in the center of Kraków
Milk bars are pinnacle to Polish culture. The idea behind this type of restaurant is for the busy, hard-working Polish citizen that wants to save money without sacrificing a good, hearty meal. Milk bars are particularly popular for lunch time, when workers need a quick, cheap fix before finishing the work day. A milk bar will specialize in only a few dishes, usually Polish classics, that they can make in mass quantities. Closing time is whenever the food runs out.
My mother and her friend Kate before they devoured two giant plates of Polish latkes and cabbage rolls at a traditional milk bar
Trekking across the globe to Poland, my mom needed to see my place of work for the past two months. Touring my mom around Auschwitz was a surreal experience, in more ways than one. It was strange teaching the Holocaust and the role of Auschwitz to someone that has taught me almost everything I know. Seeing this place through the eyes of someone who is seeing it for the first time really puts my entire co-op experience into perspective. I have found a sense of normalcy behind this barbed wire. It sounds odd, I know, but when you spend 6 hours out of the day in any place, normalcy is inevitable. Every place has become associated with parts of my job or my daily life. My office is in Block 23, Jacek (whom I call my Polish father because of his striking resemblance to my father) works in Block 24 and fellow Northeastern student, Manish Laungani, works in the former camp kitchen. I walk by the crematorium on the way into work and through the infamous “Arbeit Macht Frei” sign on my way home: this is my daily life.
I don't remember what it felt like to walk through Auschwitz I and Auschwitz II-Birkenau for the first time last summer. My new memories of these places have overshadowed the old ones and I cannot get them back. Watching my mom see each remain and each exhibit for the first time, I began to remember why I wanted to work in a former Nazi concentration and extermination camp. The sadness, frustration, anger and confusion that every visitor experiences on their three hour tour are what makes this museum necessary. I believe every person should at least try and journey to Oswiecim and see what we, as human beings, are capable of doing to one another. In reading about the Holocaust, it is easy to consume oneself in the facts and figures of this time. Visiting the sites in those textbook photographs allows one to unveil the raw and personal side of this history that can only be experienced through seeing, not reading.
I am grateful for my mother for so many reasons. Today, I am grateful that, as I begin the second-half of my time in Poland, she reminded me that my co-op work is important for this institution and for myself.
A very powerful post Hannah. I think you make a great point that everything, in time, becomes "normal". And sometimes we need to remind ourselves that things don't always have to be accepted as such. And sometimes we need to take a new perspective (or an old one in your case!)
ReplyDeleteThe food pictures are also amazing! Why do they call it a milk bar?